Who says I listen? Bob Proctor teaches about listening with the emotions or the heart. The unpleasant vibes from Uncle and Aunt telling me, "You Don't Listen", suggest that they're mad because I'm not doing what they want me to do; same as calling me selfish. Gotta be selfish to call someone else selfish.
Master Sri Akarsana talks like, "Thanks for Sharing. Pass. In everything have a goal, a protocol, and practice. In absolute alignment the Universe delivers without permission."